Not having much luck with the opposite sex? Chat up lines not working for you? Thats because there isn’t just an art to flirting—there’s a science! Ditch the cheesy lines and use these proven methods to charm and seduce instead!
You Will Need:
- A positive attitude
- Self – Confidence
Step 1
Smile as you approach. It’s important to smile with your eyes as well as your lips as it shows you are both interested and genuine.
Step 2
Say Hi/Hello and ask open questions that require more than a yes or no answer. Try to avoid using a chatup/pick up line – they don’t work and they make you seem like a sleazy player!
Step 3
Once you’ve broken the ice, keep the conversation light and fun. Avoid heavy topics such as politics, religion etc
Step 4
Tryto deliberately give off interested signals such as playing with your hair or fiddling with clothes etc
Step 5
Maintain eye contact throughout the conversation. You’re not trying to out-stare them, it shows that you are interested in them and what they have to say.
Step 6
Lean in towards the person as they talk. It shows your prospective partner that your find then interesting, and hopefully they will feel the same!
Step 7
Touch the other person gently on the arm or hand to create a little sexual tension!
Step 8
When it’s time to go home a brief hug or peck on the cheek will re-inforce your interest in the other person. It’s at this point you will hopefully be exchanging numbers! Good Luck!


